Love you.
"You do not own the thing you love" - Trevor Noah, Born a Crime
True.
You can give all the loves you have for someone/something but it will never be yours, fully or forever. It will leaves you in any possible ways, sometimes in ways you can't imagine. You will feel betrayed, unappreciated, unloved but yes life still goes on and things you love might not even be there for you anymore.
What will always be with you?
Yourself. That is why self-love is veryyy important. By any means, you only have yourself at the end of the day, no matter how much you hate yourself for not being beautiful enough, for not being smart enough or for not ever be enough.
Okay, people left. They always will be. But if they don't care about your feelings when leaving, do you need to not be cared about yourself too? I mean who else gonna love you then? They left. Do you wanna leave yourself too? No. You can't. You're stuck with yourself, FOREVER.
So, like it or not, you have to pick yourself up. Nobody is going to do that for you if it's not yourself. Appreciate you. Love you. Before anything else because after all, the person who is going to feel the pain is you, yourself. People can sympathize but they never will understand how you truly feel.
This too shall pass. The unbearable pain, it'll pass. And when it does, love yourself even more.
True.
You can give all the loves you have for someone/something but it will never be yours, fully or forever. It will leaves you in any possible ways, sometimes in ways you can't imagine. You will feel betrayed, unappreciated, unloved but yes life still goes on and things you love might not even be there for you anymore.
What will always be with you?
Yourself. That is why self-love is veryyy important. By any means, you only have yourself at the end of the day, no matter how much you hate yourself for not being beautiful enough, for not being smart enough or for not ever be enough.
Okay, people left. They always will be. But if they don't care about your feelings when leaving, do you need to not be cared about yourself too? I mean who else gonna love you then? They left. Do you wanna leave yourself too? No. You can't. You're stuck with yourself, FOREVER.
So, like it or not, you have to pick yourself up. Nobody is going to do that for you if it's not yourself. Appreciate you. Love you. Before anything else because after all, the person who is going to feel the pain is you, yourself. People can sympathize but they never will understand how you truly feel.
This too shall pass. The unbearable pain, it'll pass. And when it does, love yourself even more.
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